theyoungdem said 04/15, 02:49 PM
John McCain is against same sex marriages. The argument that same sex marriages are against religion cannot be made, since religion and government are seperated, which is one great thing about this beloved country. So who is he to try and ban same sex marriages? Human rights should be the same for everyone, why deny the rights of gays or lesbians of their right to marry? Why can they not get married? It is denying them their rights, which is wrong in this country. Therefore McCain is wrong to vote for banning same sex marriages.
Pablo the Great said 04/15, 04:16 PM
McCain is not for a Constitutional Amendment banning gay marriage. He DOES support the rights of states to set the restrictions of marriage, something left up to them by the Tenth Amendment.
The Constitution says "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof..." It does not say local laws cannot be made which follow the customs of localities, states, etc. As McCain wants it, it will NOT be a Federal issue no matter what. It's a state issue, there's no need to change that.
If, by your post, you were suggesting that gay marriage should be made forcibly legal at the federal level because some see it as a religious issue, that precedent would force the United States into utter chaos.
If the United States were to rid itself of any laws which could be argued as having a religious reasoning, murder would be legal (thou shall not kill), polygamy would be legal (goes against the traditional Christian marriage), and the 21st Amendment could not stand (it allows the states/localities to set restrictions for alcohol, temperance being a religious issue).
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theyoungdem said 04/15, 04:26 PM
McCain is not for a consitutional ban, that is true, i don't deny it. However, he DID in fact vote to prohibit gay marriages. You said "forcibly legal at the federal level"? Why should it be forced to be legal? No one forcibly makes different sex marriages legal. It should not be forced, they should get the same treatment as everyone else. It is true some see it as a religious issue, but many things that are legal are against some religions, alcohol is one, even meat for the Hindus. It would not cause the country into choas. I never said to rid itself of any laws which could be argued as religious reasoning. My point is McCain voted to prohibit gay marriage, when gays should have the same rights as everyone else.
Pablo the Great said 04/15, 06:17 PM
McCain was not "wrong" to vote against same sex marriage on a state level any more than someone is "wrong" for voting against a tax increase or voting against the Brady Bill. If passing laws (which abide by the Constitution of both the United States and the State itself) were wrong, then no representative would ever be right. States in America have passed literally THOUSANDS of laws based on widespread public consensus. This issue is no different than gun control, you can be for it, or you can be against it, but it's not inherently "wrong" of a person to vote one way or another.
You say states won't be forced to legalize gay marriage if a law is passed on a Federal level, how can that be when 43 states have outlawed the practice? Twenty-six of which have it outlawed in the State Constitution.
You have tried to paint a picture of McCain being a lone-ranger trying to ban marriage for gays, however this is far from the truth. He voted, on behalf of those whom he swore to serve. What's wrong - again, if it abides by the State and US Constitution - with a politician actually representing the people?
theyoungdem said 04/15, 07:34 PM
You're missing my point. I'm in no way trying to "picture of McCain being a lone-ranger trying to ban marriage for gays." Gays deserve the equal treatment everyone else does. Its about equality, McCain denies their equal rights by voting to prohibit it. Before the Civil War slavery was approved by southern states, would it make it right for the governors or senators of those states to be for slavery because he or she votes, "on behalf of those whom he swore to serve"? No. We all deserve equal rights, gays deserve the right to marry.
Pablo the Great said 04/15, 09:11 PM
Using the logic that states are obstructing the "rights" of gays by not recognizing their marriages (though they can live together, fornicate, adopt, etc.) then states cannot outlaw polygamy, laws which have remained relatively unchallenged through the years.
The only thing McCain did was voice his opinion, there is nothing "wrong" in doing that. The right to voice your opinion is the most cherished right guaranteed to all those in the United States. So long as an opinion is legal under the laws of the United States, we as a society cannot condemn anyone for voicing their views.
You also elude to the fact that marriage is a super-important issue for gays. If a gay couple wants to marry so much, they can move to a state where it is legal. This is the same as for a person who wants to carry a concealed weapon, go to a state where it is legal. If states cannot make their own decisions, the system is ruined for everyone.
All bringing in the slavery argument does is cloud the issue here. Slavery is nothing like the issue at hand. I hope you can all can see that, because I refuse to even debate the differences between:
1) voicing an opinion on marriage, and
2) enslaving a race
Technically, the First Amendment only says "Congress", but that's another debate. Plus it's establishing a religion, not having opinions that happen to be close to what a religious authority says. Further asserting that the right to marry is guaranteed by the Federal government (thus robbing said rights from the states) quite literally upsets the entire basis for our democracy.
Pablo the Great | 04/15/08
Report Offensive CommentIt is incredibly easy to argue against gay marriage without even a hint of religion as the argument.
USA Pit Bull 63 | 04/15/08
Report Offensive CommentPablo, what are you talking about in your comment? Plenty of rights are guaranteed by the federal government, thus reducing state power. Please explain. And Pit Bull, what is your "incredibly easy" argument against gay marriage? Keeping in mind the principles of Equal Protection, I can't see how it's an easy argument to make. What if blacks couldn't marry? How is this any different? It is marginalizing a group, telling them that their unions are not equal in the eyes of the law. I mean, what are you really trying to protect here? If gays want to commit to each other like anyone else, what is the harm? I mean, it's not going to jeopardize the sanctity of the institution (ahem, Britney Spears). Straight couples get divorced at astonishing rates, especially in my home state (CA).
DonkeyDude | 04/15/08
Report Offensive CommentI am not taking a side on whether gay marriage should be legal or not, I am simply saying that there is nothing "wrong" with what McCain did. Earlier I also noted that it is the decision of the state to set marriage parameters, not the Federal governments.
Pablo the Great | 04/16/08
Report Offensive CommentPablo, thank you for clarity on this issue. You advance a compelling argument and because of your insight, I have learnt something. I hope THEYOUNGDEM has learnt something too. And on the basis of your argument, I think you deserve to win this debate, but on the basis of my moral standing, I think McCain was wrong.
CRISP | 04/16/08
Report Offensive CommentIts all about rights. McCain voted for prohibiting gay marriage, even though states set marriage parameter, he most certainly did not help ensuring gays get the same rights as others. Why should they have to go to a different state where gay marriage is legal? It is not wrong to voice an opinion, but an opinion against equal rights is wrong. Would we not allow an asian person marry a black person? We woud, so why not just let a gay person marry a gay person? My point is McCain's opinion was wrong
theyoungdem | 04/16/08
Report Offensive CommentPlease keep it clean. Bad words will get filtered, and offensive comments will be removed.
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The Establishment Clause of the First Amendment is also made applicable to the states via the 14th Amendment. I think what theyoungdem is saying is that it is also wrong for states to prohibit gay marriage, because it denies equal protection (as guaranteed under the constitution). In other words, it is unconstitutional to deny gays that right, so allowing states to do that is "wrong." The only perspective, as I see it, under which it is not a violation of Equal Protection is in the religious context -- and this is not a consideration that the government may make.
sallyjames | 04/15/08
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